I think doing what YOU want is in your best interest. Your H is clearly not in a place to communicate and is lost. You can be the lighthouse (have you read that again recently) or you can let go; either way you need to move forward with what is best for BT.

Awesome job in the 5K by the way. smile

E

M 46 / H 43
T 24/M 18
S 4
11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY
1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom
1/8/2016 H moved out