Hello,

Nothing much to update. I've been working late. H has been picking up S, feeding S, playing with S--I miss that because it's so nice here. S rode his bike all by himself last night, got on it by himself and took off by himself. H taught him last year, but S has been hesitant up until last night to try again. H did dishes by hand Monday night and had left me some dinner.

I am looking at my H in a new light, I'm looking at his good qualities. He's such a good teacher to our S, not just athletically and sports related, but every day things. H more or less taught S to write his name, taught him to rhyme. H takes the time to explain things to S as S asks lots of questions, is very chatty.

Last night they went out to eat and played outside. S told me H did some yardwork which H didn't mention.

I've been calling H each morning, just to say hi or leave a message. Yesterday he didn't call me back all day. This morning I left him a voice mail even though his phone was on and he hasn't called back. Asked him if he wanted me to bring some lunch to his jobsite as he had forgotten the sandwhich I made for him in the fridge. H usually calls me at work, so this is a little 180 on my part..we'll see how it goes especially if he doesn't take my calls

Last night when I got into bed H didn't want me to lay by him I said well can I say goodnight to which H replied good night.

H and S are connecting big time. S wants me to pick him up from daycare toay but I have to work late tonight. S said tomorrow night can you pick me up and I said yes, knowing I'd have to work late. S changes his mind though, there are days when he wants to me to pick him up and then I get there and he'll say "I wanted D to pick me up"

When I got home last night the house was dark except in S's bedroom. When I came in the house the whole house was dark. I thought maybe they both went to bed, but they weren't in the room so I went into our bedroom to close the windows and turned around the closet door opened and H was standing there..I screamed...turned around and S was hiding in the corner behind me, but had clothes on top of him, right next to the window I had just closed.

Cathy