No please, I appreciate everyones advice. I was just joking re knowing you, amwknsw. You've been pushing me to hire an L from the beginning and I'm beginning to think you might be right. I'll see how it goes tomorrow.

I'm so confused. We have SO SO SO much debt, he is going to pay that off. That's why I can't go for the jugular. And I also want to make sure we can stay friendly for the kid's sake. But everyone is telling I have to separate those two things and secure my D and I financially.
He is just desperate to be free and focus on himself and his gf.