Brutus, Welcome to the best place to be in the worst time. My sitch is new, so I won't offer advice and let the veterans do that.

I hope you find reading the boards and posting helpful. This Newcomers Board is very, very active. You will post something in the morning and if, for whatever reason, it's not generating many replies, you may find your post 5 pages in.

Keep posting your updates. Lots of readers on this board that don't post replies... it is so busy. You are being heard.

Buttercup

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D16
H EA Feb 2014
BD Sept 2015
H moved out Nov 2015
W Filed D papers Mar 2016