I hear you G. Very doable. I wish I tried when we lived together. I wouldn't have chased for so long probably.
Looking at you latest posts and thinking about your responses. They are very intelligent. I think a lot of people here would love for their wives to say the things yours did. But what would happen? A little time goes by and maybe you would be the one leaving or her again. A lot of icing to be done there and she doesn't seem willing yet.
Great job on taking care of you and ensuring a better future.
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15