New Year..Need new goals

[Rain75]

Hi Ancaire!

Im angry because he is a cheating sob and ignores the kids and wants to pop up when it's convenient.

And his BF dig pisses me off because is that not just a tad bit hypocritical when he is the one that signed up for 5 dozen hook up sites after the OW let me know everything? It's not like he's remorseful and helping me pick up the pieces. Or trying to make our family work after this. Nope he is immersed in 20 year olds.

So 1 he is not spying on me. That would take too much effort and time away from his new super awesome single life

2 there is no new BF. But as I read here once...a theif always thinks everyone else steals. So if I ask for time frames it's obviously because I have someone....in his mind. He was unfaithful...IS unfaithful without a reason and since I have reason (his words after OW debacle) then he feels justified in believing I found someone new. Twisted.

And advice because I was instructed going as dark as possible with kids is the way to go. But now he will be here for at least a couple of hours if not more.

And yea I figured kicking him was going to be vetoed.