New Year..Need new goals

[Rain75]

Inpain....the couples outside are hard to watch for sure. But these guys were in my house for a few days. He chased her down for a good morning kiss and she ran because she hadn't brushed her teeth yet. He said he didn't care..he loves her either way.

And all the pet names. Uhhh. And the phone thing..yes! Mine would always let me. Then suddenly there was a code and if I said a word I was trying to invade his privacy. And the one time he did let me use his he was the same as your H.

I walk around when I talk. i multi task. Clean...cook...etc. He followed me everywhere. But yea, nothing to hide. Uh huh.

I am happy for her. She went through a sitch similar to all of ours. It was awful. So she deserves this. I love her and hope to be at their wedding. But it was hard to see in the midst of my pain.

And yes...I so wanted to say thanks but no thanks. But what good does that do my kids? I'd rather not see him at all knowing what he is doing. But they come first. And he refused to answer me as to what time he will be here and how long he planned to stay. I only asked twice. Then I dropped it. Then hours later he text me to say....i don't know the times guess you'll just have to tell your new BF daddy's coming and he can't see you for a while.

I seriously wanted to drive there and slap the living hell out of him. Uh hypocrite much? Such an ass. I ignored him instead. We're going out to grocery shop in a bit then they're leaving. After i cook dinner and bathe the kids and their bed time. I will be back on here in full force.

Especially with him coming tomorrow. I need advice because I'd like to kick him when he walks in but I'm guessing Thats a DB no-no.