My counseling session was very good.

I hadn't seen her in a while - going to the addictions counselor, and he was helping the M sitch.

The female counselor really liked what I had discovered in the last couple weeks, about myself and my wife.

She stressed, like you Mowgli, to remain humble, and realize to keep working hard on my side of the street. Never convict the wife - if she is truly sorry, she will show it, and want to work on the relationship. From what I can see, she's convicting herself just fine. When I show compassion, from a place of strength, and she shows it in kind, the trust will grow. She might not be able to right away, and need more proof that trumpet is a changed, and consistent trumpet.

Mowgli, you have been awesome to blog with. I want to thank you so much for putting your time into me. It is sooo appreciated.

If things continue to improve, I'm going to have to call Divorce Busting, and thank MWD for her help. It really was, out of all the advise I got, the way to make rescue my marriage.


M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)