You W would still like to control you. She does not want do be with you, but she would still like to control your actions and keep you on her hook so to speak. This is where most people fcuk up, the mistake spouse's question as a renewed sign of interest, but in all truth they are just checking if we are still there where they left us.
And us moving away rings alarm bells with them, as they realize that they are not in control. So they seek to regain control.
Jut live your life as she is not coming back, you are not healed enough to even consider dating, but your GAL index is off the charts, so my hat is of to you sir.
Just live on, learn to love yourself again and life does get better day by day. That does not mean that there won't be days when you'll be in the dumps, but progress is imminent!
Stay strong buddy, you really are doing very well.
