Just to catch up on a bit of journalling from yesterday. One of my 180s has been to show more interest when H talks about his work as this was one of his complaints. Whenever he has left our house and has been going to work shortly afterwards I have been saying, "Have a good shift!" It has taken him aback for certain. The first time I said it he did a double take and looked confused as to why I would say that. The second time he looked at me the same. The next few times he just said thank you. Last night, before I got chance to say it, he said to me, "Have a good day at work tomorrow." I'm marking it in my journal as a baby step.
As always though it is one step forwards and two back. Last night he said, "See you tomorrow." as he left. He hasn't been round and hasn't text either. Upset children again.
