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[AU Bob]

Thanks Sotto
I was just staying home until a couple month ago. I did not really let a lot of people know about my sitch out of embarrassment and shame mostly, I only told a few close friends.
Two months ago I started to realise that this sitch was not going away and she was not going to come back, I was tiered and lonely, I needed to reconnect with people again, I told a lot more people and let it be known I was up for going out and doing stuff again, this has blossomed and I now get invites all the time.
I go to the gym almost every day and have friends there. I have a vintage car (56 VW bug) I meet up with a few other car freaks every sunday morn for coffee and a chat. I have vintage racing bicycles that I ride with others a fair bit.
I have gone out dancing a lot and dinners at friends places.
So I think the GAL thing is starting to take shape quite well, I am a lot happier and most of the anxiety is gone.
I also have the support of my children who are not that happy about how she is behaving, two of them have said to me I am better off without WAW, this saddens me quite a bit, they used to have such a loving relationship.
It's strange now that WAW is the one who seems to be upset that I am getting over her, they don't understand that you get to a point where "you" get strong enough to be indifferent and start taking control of and enjoying your life again.