GS9,

Actions have consequences.

Have you been able to be humble enough to tell her you're sorry about the M? I need to keep being humble, and letting my W know I am sorry for my part in the relationship.

She wants to put the blame all on you. She doesn't realize that we're all broken. We can't be perfect. No marriage ever will be.

We can only accept what we did to make the situation, and apologize for our part. I kept on waiting for the apology from the WW, but it never came. It did come when I apologized for my part, and after showing through actions that I had changed, thus DB'ing.

I do think she's got a bit more to go, gs9. When is she out of the house? A week after she's out might be the start of the bottom.


M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)