Zues, you're right. It's so hard to think straight about things any more and we mirror our spouse's selfishness far too much. It's so hard to break out of but you see it clearly (or more clear than we do). Not for lack of the same principles (at least for me) only lack of anything left in us to think straight. The heart with all its hurt gets in the way of thinking straight.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
