Hi Ladybir, I'm sorry to hear how you're feeling about tomorrow. If you can, I would tell yourself that the time for grieving will not be at this meeting. It will be before or it will be after.

At the meeting, at which you will be looking lovely and smelling subtly divine - I hope you will manage composed, graceful, compassionate and firm if needed. This is a business meeting, and purely deals with the practical aspects of your divorce.

Getting divorced emotionally is another matter and may happen on a different timescale. It is up to you whether you choose to stand for your marriage, but people on the forum always say - it is never over until or unless you have decided so..

Take care, and I hope the meeting goes as well as it can do xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus