Thanks for the encouragement. S doesn't really want to spend more time with W than he has to. She would love to now but is suffering for the years she didn't really do anything much with him. As for single ladies I'll think I'll have to wait! It would complicate things way too much although I miss feminine company. Fortunately I work with a lot of kind women who put up with me. Fingers crossed everything goes smoothly tomorrow. It's very hard as I love her as much as ever but chasing never worked before. I'll have to trust that absence does make the heart grow fonder.