It's crazy but thankfully with all the advice of people here I think I'm navigating it correctly. The old me would have accepted her blame, reassured her, pursued her. The old me would have would have continued apologizing where the new only apologizes for what I know I did wrong and only apologize once. The new me will let her deal with the consequences of her choices. I will not save her from herself. I do not believe her words or tears and only half of her actions. So far the action I've seen is a more gentleness than usual but she has a long way to go. Trying to stay out of God's way
Me 40 WW 41 D 4 S 12 S 14 BD 6.16.2015 W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15 W Filed Divorce 9.14.15 My ring off 11.15.15 D finalized 12.18.15 WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place
