Hey D, good to hear from you man. You sound like you're in a good place. I look at you as a place where I want to be. And I'm getting there. It's working.

Well done that man.

As for the EXW's comments. I'm not really sure what you can do there. GB gives good advice but I also get that you need to speak to her. I'm fortunate that I very rarely need to speak to mine directly and all communications are electronic. I don't get the 'I miss you' type convo's but she is trying to friend zone me. I tip toe around it. I'm thinking of becoming a politician;-)

Good to hear from you again.

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.