Hi Feyth, I think the important thing is - you don't need to decide anything at this point. If your H wants to move ahead with a D, that's his choice. You can let him know it wouldn't be your choice, but that you respect his wishes and won't stand in his way.
Does he have grounds for filing?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
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