Hi Au Bob, if you're not getting the responses you're hoping for, it may be helpful to take some time to get to know other's sitches, post on their threads and that in turn can encourage them on to yours. I'm not sure if you'll remember 'the other Bob' but he was a past master of this - it is a case of the more you put in the more you'll get out I think.

For me, it sounds as though you did reasonably well with all of the above. I think it's just important to recognise that things take time. I'd like to see you posting some more about what things you are doing for yourself, as your own journey towards healing and a rich life (with or without your W in it) are the most important things here.

Take care my friend smile

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus