Hi Scranton - this is a crucial time for GAL - replace the interactions you long for with your W, with interactions with others (as long as they aren't single ladies of course.) Those kinds of interactions just lead to way more trouble!

Good for you with the running group! That could be your one regular GAL activity identified and started in January. Can you come up with another one in February? If so, you're on track.

BTW, I understand what you're saying about S15, but I think activities for you once or twice a week are crucial. Does your W spend regular time with him ATM & if so, could you plan some GAL then??

The good thing about you Scrant is you understand the process and you've got there pretty quickly. It's now a case of truly staying on track. Read the 37 rules every single day if you need to - laminate them - and stick with it.

Take care xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus