At work so only have a second, but I think the idea is you continue to be the best wife and woman you can be, but drop the expectations of how you want him to respond.
This isn't fake. Loving behavior doesn't mean you are bubbling over with desire and positive feelings. Loving behavior means you do what's right despite the fact you AREN'T.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15