Originally Posted By: focus22
I bumped into someone my H is working with at the moment. We had a quick chat. She started off looking worried and sounding very concerned for me.

I soon turned that around though wink And within minutes she was laughing and joking, telling me how much weight I'd lost, how amazing I looked and that she was really pleased for me.

I'd taken a while to get ready, so I felt pretty confident, and I had been racing along the street, so my heart was pounding a bit and my face was flushed. So that feeling of excitement was totally genuine on my part.

Now, I don't know if she may or may not say anything to my H about bumping into me when she is at work tomorrow, but I reckon she'll say something to someone, and that *that* is what will get round.

I had a nice evening out. Walked home as well.


So, thinking back to this chance encounter yesterday eveninh...one thing I didn't do was ask for information about how my H is. There wasn't the space in the conversation because I was chatting too much about what I'd been up to, lol!

It was totally genuine though, he didn't even cross my mind during that conversation, even though it was with someone my H has done a lot of work with and that's how I know her.

I feel so grateful for this small sign of progress smile


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017