thanks Azzork

I don't believe there is magic in cousneling Prior counseling was not effective for us as it was "set up dates" blah blah blah

EFT therapy I have read and know people that gets to the core of the connection issues. Not hoping for a miracle but to get to the core of why we disconnected. Takes 2 to tango though and I am dancing alone

She has made comments that I have been alot better and caring overall. But her heart is cast iron right now and I don't see that changing towards me

Divorce is not a long process where I live so worried that once this ship sails it isn't turning back.

I have done alot to this point on myself and realize where I can be a better husband but can't apply those things to me. I need her ....


BTW...is there any electronic version of the book versus hardcopy?


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Me-48
Spouse-WAW 52
Married for 10 years
D7
ILYBNILWY 7/15
Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial
She files 1/2016
Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....