I am on a few sites. It is a bit depressing. My therapist believes he is going through both. He is frantically asking for the birth certificates and ssn. I have no clue what is going through his mind. My S6 had a fever and I took him into urgent care last night called H 4x and no answer until 7 am ...well he was fine yesterday and I am on my way to school...He has no feeling. I was told that since they had that wartime high that the rest of their life seems boring and they always chase the high. I think that is why he is in pilot school now...trying to get that adrenaline rush. I am concerned about the guns but he has essentially axed me from his life. I feel like I never existed in it...other than to have his boys. He deflects all those issues on me. My therapist is upset that he is not in any sort of treatment but in his mind I am the problem, which I guess it is why he needs that divorce so rapidly.
