Originally Posted By: Bobbyb
I have seen no glimmer of hope from her.


And you will not see a glimmer either, you have still not stopped pursuing her.

Originally Posted By: Bobbyb
I am hoping her maybe wanting to see my girls is a glimmer. Maybe I'm just pretending.
No, its setting an expectation.

Originally Posted By: Bobbyb
Also..I gave my kids mail to give to ex and I slipped a Christmas card I had gotten her but she had not got. In it I enclosed a $20 Powerball ticket. I wrote " If you win, I want 1/2 which would be about $200 million after taxes. Merry Christmas and Happy Birthday"
Maybe it is a sign?
No, its not a sign.

Originally Posted By: Bobbyb
By my choice:)
I get that it was tongue and cheek, but it is indeed always your choice.

IMhO: the powerball ticket/note (again, I get you were sending humor/olive branch), but is a rookie mistake. Set a goal for yourself about how long you can go without thinking about ways to interact with her.


edit - the word quote spelled incorrectly within html - Cadet
and wounded fool - it may be my fault on the edit button - you should have 10 mins to use the button however I edited it in about 5 mins - sorry





Last edited by Cadet; 01/11/16 08:15 AM. Reason: message

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