Yay for hope buddy. I'm happy for you as well. I wish I had your outlook at this time. I feel mine has taken a turn for the worse. I put the boundaries there, and it's for my protection, but I just feel cold. Not really any contact except to talk about my kid. I find I care less about what she's doing, or what she wants, which is healthier, but still painful.
Me:36 W: 27 D2 T10 M:2.5 Filed D 1/14/16 BD: Sep 15 A Discovered: 11/17/15 She moves out 11/19/15