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Def no more drinking and posting then....haha

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Just looked at a couple of apartments. Hooooly...they were so gross. Can't believe I have to live like that with a kid. Hopefully the one I'm seeing tomorrow is better. Yikes!

Going to a meet up for separated and divorced people. All women though.

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Looking at another apartment later, if this one doesn't work out you will all hear me scream.

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Scream all you want. My car is still vibrating most likely from last night's rant.
I wish we knew where we all live. Where I am rents are very high because it's a college town. I looked at one place to share and the guy was a complete stoner. 40 years old with his video games all over the living room floor. I actually considered it, I was so desperate.


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You should see the places I briefly considered yesterday. I am SO glad I didn't take them. Showering there would have made me dirtier. Yuck!

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Originally Posted By: Grlonfr
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I agree but my H doesn't like to sit still. Something has to happen.
But as my friend said, big part of marriage is having someone to take care of you when you have hip surgery. Don't know that I will wait around another 30 years for him to realize that though, haha.


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My ongoing battle with lice has given me an epiphany. If a guy is willing to pick the nits on my head and on kid's head, I will swear my undying devotion for life. My money will be his money, his enemies will be my enemies. And woe will befall on anyone who dares hurt my nit-picker.

Your H and my X just aren't at the place in their lives where they are willing to take care of us in these ways.



Grl, I didn't want to say this before, but when my D had lice, H and I sat there every night for about an hour a night combing them out. For over a week. And he also once removed a large square of paper towel from my son's nose that was wedged really deep up there. Maybe that is why I am not giving up hope?


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Gmum, are you in the City? Can you move out to the suburbs where it is a lot cheaper?


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I have to say that I am so happy I don't live in that city. I've heard that living costs are astronomical! I've seen pictures of typical apartments, and what they go for, and almost fainted. How do people afford to live there? I don't get it.


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
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What city is that? I'm curious...


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Do I still belong on this board if I hate my ex? I cannot wait for him to leave town.
We're starting the mediation process soon and I have a feeling I'm going to get screwed over. My friends are urging me to get a lawyer. I'd rather not. And it's important to me that we can coexist, but all he seems to care about is himself and $$.

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