We had a talk about future that she initiated, I have not placed obstacles, just asked for more time to think things through.

So far I have made my priorities:
-financial agreement/stability
-child well-being (D9) and her interests
-my parents and their relationship with grand-daughter

Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room