Mut, this weekend was not typical though to a lesser degree she has similar moments. Because it was exceptional I wonder if I should bring it up?

On the upside it makes detaching easier!

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together