Gwen, I know what you mean by this “isolation” thing. I stopped talking about my sitch with my family and friends. Like you said, they don’t have any interest in my feelings. If I express any feeling I get 2x4s, ensured. Even my closest GFs don’t want to hear about my sitch anymore. All I get these days is “I wish you would already moved on…”

Gwen, please come back and share whatever is on your mind. We are here for you. Sometimes I also I think if I ever be able to “drop the rope”… I think for some people it is a lot slower process than for others. Plus, you were married for 25 years and have two Ds with your H. I will take some time, but it will get better.

Thinking of you.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state