Need support navigating the change in my marriage

[G8r]

Thank you for the support NateG79. I really rather not burn things to the ground if I don't have to. Part of my problem is that I let the cat out of the bag and telling her that not only would I not be her friend but that I would have as little to do with her as possible. Although I would be cordial, I would speak to her like I would a supermarket cashier. Should have kept quiet because the W says that is what has pushed her away the most.

I hope the NC goes well for you but how do you do that with D2. I already mis my D3 because I don't see her in the mornings because I leave before she awakens.

I'm thinking that I might have had more success trying a separation where we lived apart rather than in same house. Who knows?