Mu, if there's anything I've learned on this journey, that there are stages to go through. Grief, despair, loneliness, anger, acceptance, and hope are all stages that will show up more than once.
V is right. Acknowledge them and move on. It's important to recognize them, say hello, but then let them go.
***hugs***
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M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out