Just caught up on your situation. I totally understand where you are coming from when you talk about wanting closure. i also understand not wanting to lose time with your daughter.
I wish I could offer advise. All I can say is that you have really kept your cool above and beyond how most people would have handled it. I am 99.9% sure I would not have acted with your class when talking with OM. I probably would have destroyed an entire family with spite being my primary motive...even more of a reason i don't always like to give advise in these situations
The only thing I do think that helps me in these situations, is no matter how bad things feel for me, I would never ever want to switch roles with WAS. They electively broke up their own family and shortened their own time with kids. What rational person does that? And how do they look at themselves in the mirror?
What does coach say about serial cheaters? Was she actually diagnosed with a personality disorder?
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
