Hmmm. My h does the same. Every time I cut some cord or distance myself further I get the "we" and "our" and "us" statements. I pretend to ignore them as well. Weirdos.

But his statement giving money "from us" is truly odd. That is like you are a couple.

Ok - so what happened with the book report?

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced