I can feel your frustration, it's well deserved. There is now no doubt in my mind that your W is still baking. I wonder if that process is harder for them while living together.....you have a tough choice to make here....S makes it tougher.

Maybe take some Cali time and space for yourself. Look deep inside...what feels right for you? You have truly done all you can do. Moving out sounds good, but you know W will continue to count on you for numerous things. Not to mention the back and forth with S....it would take a while for that adjustment to settle....

But you know what Cali? As much as I hate being in that situation, I am totally grateful I don't have H MLC in my face. It also gives me MY needed space to not only do my work, but to figure out what I want.

Knowing you, it won't be long before you find your answer. Stay strong Cali, you are handling things so well. Being at the same time length, I understand your peace with yourself right now. I think it is huge with helping us decide our paths.


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-