This evening turned out to be the perfect antidote to today.

I did some more clearing out this afternoon, and then got ready for a couple of hours out with some work colleagues.

On my way there, I bumped into someone my H is working with at the moment. We had a quick chat. She started off looking worried and sounding very concerned for me.

I soon turned that around though wink And within minutes she was laughing and joking, telling me how much weight I'd lost, how amazing I looked and that she was really pleased for me.

I'd taken a while to get ready, so I felt pretty confident, and I had been racing along the street, so my heart was pounding a bit and my face was flushed. So that feeling of excitement was totally genuine on my part.

Now, I don't know if she may or may not say anything to my H about bumping into me when she is at work tomorrow, but I reckon she'll say something to someone, and that *that* is what will get round.

I had a nice evening out. Walked home as well.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017