Battles of the sexes?

[JulieH]

My mother would never have let my brother leave his family to move in with her unless his wife was unfaithful.

I am sure husband told his mom that I pushed him out because that's what he says to himself. His mom knows this wasn't true and gave me all this advice t and revealed her own issues to me. but it's her son. I know how these things go.

My MIL brought kids to store after Christmas and let them pick out presents for me because no one did that with them. MIL also gave me Christmas gifts. I appreciate her bt at same time I feel like she has enabled everyone her whole life and that is part of problem I am dealing with.

Fo talk to lawyer to figure out what to do now so you don't have to worry about 50/50 if it does come to that. I felt that way too. How horrible to divide kids up with in laws.