Ancaire: i don't know how determined I am anymore. You nailed it. He is satisfied with the status quo.. He's got mommy cooking and cleaning and taking care of kids for him every other weekend. He comes and goes as he pleases. Now he is finally paying child support, but still doing great because he had it set up so that we were living with my parents when he left!
This is what he wanted our whole marriage. To come and go as he pleased without me getting upset. Do you remember how my big complaint during the marriage was that he would sleep till 2 when kids were little and then wake up and run errands for his car or for his mother. He missed picking up kids from preschool multiple times because he was sleeping at noon. His big complaint was I did no service things for him and didn't go back to work full time.
I'm sorry more venting.
You are right. The comment about Memorial Day means nothing. If we were together he would have told me in advance. It helps so much that I am going away too! There are some other positives for me and I think if I can wait this out husband will prefer to reconcile. I will set a time line though.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
