I agree with PP on this. There is rarely a reason not to agree with PP.
This is a process and we all have degree's of readiness, we all have different places where we need to grow and deal.
We each have different issues and are different understandings of where they fit. This Dbin journey and our relationships and contact with our significant other offer us clues of where we have made ground and where we still have room to move.
You and I Ancaire, share many similar places of vulnerablity and places to heal. This is not a linear process and I find that I dip in and out of the various places as I gain insight.
I struggle daily seeing other people move through their stuff with what I think is ease. Daily I see people becoming their authentic selves, closer to happiness and freedom I so desparately want to feel.
But it is ridiculous notion to compare my journey to others. I feel learning this lesson is imperative as it is the key to detaching from our significant others too. Our journey is our own. Just as every person on the planet is moving through it. We can only bare witness to others jouneries. Celebrate their victories, empathatise with their pain, and hear their frustration and anger when they feel stuck. This all we have to offer each other and likely what we need to offer ourselves as we journey through this life.
Your progress is where you see and feel it. For people like us who have histories of never fully being acknowledged and seen. It is an unpracticed skill.
You are moving Ancaire, shift and growth is happening. Sometimes it is about noticing it.
