Battles of the sexes?

[JulieH]

Nate, that is me as well. I was never disloyal to anyone and I expect it in return. I have no proof that husband had an affair. To be honest, if I found out I would not be capable of forgiving and staying married. Especially if you combine it with the money hording. in a way that would have given me closure.

I think that If he does not make more of an effort it is going to be too late. I am not a bad catch (except for the living with parents thing). He has proven what type of character he has, so I don't feel like I would be losing anything. In a way, my sons spend more time with him now then they ever really did before. I actually get more of a break now then before.

Husband just sent me a pic of kids with MIL at a bounce house. This is what he wants out of life? Family time with the kids, him and his mother???? It's so hard for me to hold back the comments on this one. I just sent a smiley face. Thank god for smiley faces.