This is how I see it. Detachment isn't letting go of standing, you can still stand. Detachment isn't about being hot, warm or cold in mood. Detachment is about doing that which works for you irrespective of the outcome.
You can be friendly, NC, LRT or any in any combination because it is right for you, irrespective of the out one.
For instance, do you want to come to the game? Yes is ok, No is also ok. You do what you want to do because it's right for you, you do that which works for you.
Whatever the other does or chooses to do is fine. Of course you have a preference but you know the other has their own choice. Their choice is merely their choice.
You assert your boundary irrespective of the response, because your reasonable boundary is your standard to be respected.
So will detaching drive your WW away, actually if you are doing that which you need to do for you, then whether it does or doesn't is not even an issue.
That is my thinking
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
