Is - perfect timing for this post! I've finally gotten to the point that I can do this, and be okay with it. I've done so much thinking this weekend - I've really come to a point of peace, as well as who I am and where I want to be.

I've read this before, but unlike other times I've read it - it really speaks to me right now. I think you have to really be mentally ready to "hear" before it truly starts to make sense.

I'm ready. I'm ready to live my life for me. I'm ready to give H the space and time he so obviously needs. I'm ready to stop worrying about him, what he thinks, what he feels.

It really is all about me now. I've identified so many areas I need to work on, I've got my hands full with figuring out my future - but the future doesn't look nearly as scary as it did a few weeks ago.

This should be required reading for all of us! At least once a month, until we're ready to really absorb the wisdom contained therein.

Thanks again!


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti