Many of them have been through similar issues as us
I don't know your whole situation but I think we can change our behavior at any time Your H will see the new behavior over time if you are consistent these changes are for us-maybe they can encourage friendship with our MLCer to keep the environment calm especially for the kids It doesn't mean you have to cater to him..just be kind, upbeat and positive- gal live your life
A DB coach once told me to do what works to achieve the results I am looking for but would it help your situation to just be detached,cordial and courteous
what are you trying to achieve?
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