Need Help (new thread)

[AU Bob]

WAW came around to pick up D17 to take her shopping. She wanted to come in for some reason, I was in my bedroom reading and stayed there, she came in and started talking to me and said to me I didnt have to stay in the room while she eas there, and said she would make us coffee, she said a few thing I cant remember and at the end of it said she wished we could be friends, i just said no i dont think so and said I would move out to the kitchen with her.
When we started talking it was just about general stuff and how we were doing and what we were doing, i explained to her basicly how I now have a life that is satisfying and I am at peace. All the regular activitys I do and my nights out for dinners and dancing ect, I showed her pictures of the progress of the restoration of my pickup truck, and other pictures of gatherings and activitys I have done an attended.
Then the relationship reared its ugly head again, I had sent her a text a couple of weeks ago telling her that if she wanted to use our house while she had our grandaughter with her she was welcome to bring her here, i also added that I could go elsewhere while she was here, she did not reply to me and i just wrote it off as indifference and thought no more about it.
She said she did not understand why i would not want to be there I just said nothing. Then she asked why I did not talk to her much at our christmas gathering, i just said I spoke to you everytime you spoke to me. She took a few photos of grandaughter and me while i was there. I made no real effort to engage her.
Then i showed her pictures of my 50th birthday, she looked at them and said pity I was not invited!
At this stage I had sort of started to get a bit perplexed, i said you are not a part of my life anymore, i am well onmy way togetting a life back and i am now at peace with it all, i am happy now and enjoying life again. I said to her she has never really explained why she walked out she just gave me bits and pieces, i told her i agreed that things were not good and that i wanted to work on it (i have) she chose to walk away i said to her that i understood why she felt she had to do that but I did not agree with how she did it (Involvement with OM) i did not mention him she knows that herself.
She mentioned the friendship thing again and i just said no I have a life now and i am happy. She said the same thing to me 2 months acter she walked out.
Ok start giving me your thoughts.