Okay...so today. Our oldest daughter spent the night at a friends house. I had the two younger kids. We went to church at 10:45 and after I brought to the wifes house.
I get there and see my wife in the garage with the door open but she doesn't say anything to me and I dont say anything to her. Helping carry the kids stuff up to the house door.
Then she moves towards me and starts talking at me. I can tell by her voice she is irritated. She wants to tell me that our youngest son has a doctor's appointment on tuesday and that she will working from home that day because of it but she would still like me to do all the dropping off and picking up.
(This week coming up is even more work than usual because its midterm week for the middle child and she gets off of school at noon 3 days this week.)
So, the W says it would be easier for her if I could still pick them up and drop them off on tuesday. I say, well it would be helpful to me if she could do it that day. She looks confused and flustered and unexpected, and then agrees...reluctantly.
She says, well I called you a couple of times this week, but you didn't answer. Is that how its going to be from now on? I said, well you didn't leave any messages, I didn't know I needed to call back.
She then says, okay, well...so, thats how its going to be. Do we need to get lawyers involved now?
I said, I don't know. I'm not doing anything different.
And then I think I said okay well I'll talk to you later and started to get in the car.
Then she says, you know, this is why we aren't married anymore (Making a hand gesture between us) because you've been like this for so long and are just an [censored].
I smiled. Got in the car and drove off.
And that was it.
Me:41 - LBH in apt W:39 - WW in home Kids:D(15), D(11), S(9) - custody % 58/42 M: 15 yrs - DoS: 10-11-15 (PA confirmed 2-12-16; WW dumped by AP 11-6-15; WW dated 7-8 men in Jan '16 via Match.com)