B's 10-Week Bootcamp

[Bfice3]

Hello DB land. Another post from this place I'm in...

So, I'm going to try to paint my version of this week real quick. Basically, I was doing no contact all week. My wife told me on Sunday she wasn't wearing her wedding ring anymore, and I saw her Match.com profile where she says she is back on the dating scene after a long break. (I also saw where she posted a picture of her that I took, at a famous historical site in Paris, where she blames her 'friend' for not including the whole famous site...bu anyway).

So, this week. I picked up and brought to school two of my kids every morning and afternoon. Our third child was off this week as well because of year-round school. I had the kids Sun and Mon night, as well as Wed - Sat night. So, I worked all week, and like have been doing all along since our separation and before, I brought the kids to school and picked them up.

On Monday and Thursday nights I brought my oldest daughter to swimming practice at 7:45 - 9pm. On wednesday, I took the two younger ones to violin practice, and then to piano practice for my middle daughter. (Wednesdays are always very busy, and that just happens to be one night a week my wife let me have every week.)

Also, I worked with my middle daughter on her science fair project, and though we didn't finish it, we did a lot of work. Oh and there was a basketball game Friday night, but I digress.

So...as far as communication with my wife...here's what happened. I never contacted her. She sent me one text early on in the week about a counseling session with my daughter (which oh yeah, there's another thing I did) I quickly sent her a 'thumbs up' text and that was my only response.

My wife called my cell phone once and I didn't answer on Wed night. She left no messages and no other forms of communication so I never called back.

Thursday she called my daughters cell phone to talk to me. It was a conversation like this:
W: How's it going?
Me: Fine:
W: How are the kids?
Me: They're good.
W: Anything I need to know about?
Me: Nope.
W: Okay. Are you doing okay?
Me: Yep.
W: Do we need to talk?
Me: Nope.
W: You sure?
Me: Yes.
W: Okay, well I may show up to the basketball game tomorrow but I probably won't sit next to you.
Me: Okay, thats fine, whatever you want, I don't care. Talk to you later.
W: Okay
...and I handed the phone back to my daughter.

(I know my last response wasn't very good, but I was irritated.)

Then I sent my W a text saying if she needs to contact me, she should do so directly and not through our children. To which she never responded.

Then, on Sat morning she called my cell again. I was with the kids in a store and didn't see/hear the ring and didn't answer, for real, and she left no message or any other communication so I never called back.

Now, also through the week she forwarded me several emails about the kids school and basketball games, etc. I say forwarded because thats literally what they are. Forwarded messages with zero input from her, no 'here', no 'thought you might need to know this...", no nothing, just a forwarded email. I printed them all out and used all the information but never responded to any of them.

Okay....going to start a second post now because I'm sure this is ridiculously long.