I posted something earlier but don't see it & not sure if it went through.?
But maybe it was too long ;-)
Anyway, summary:
Not sure if checking marriage records would do anything but clarify for my sake if it's real.
Other news, XH said his wife was pregnant back in October but then a friend of mine said that XH posted on FB something different. XH & new wife went for IVF in December & its s girl. He told me they were expecting a girl in October but then proceeded to post pics of them at the clinic in December with pics of the sonogram of their new embryo.
Ex-SIL said she thinks it's more lies. Her parents didn't know that they were pregnant til SIL told them it was on FB. Along with this huge story about when they got married but kept it quiet since they felt bad and cuz they didn't invite everyone. That they're planning a wedding to invite everyone later.
Anyway, doesn't matter when or how they're pregnant or if she is but why in such hurry?
Getting married, remodeling her home to accommodate all children, have another child by spending thousands of dollars for it to happen, new businesses, trying to get our children to like him & accept everything.
Btw-I've told all my friends and SIL not to keep telling me what's on FB. Don't need to know his platform for approval. I know FB is his stage. Just weird stuff all the time.