After having a internet porn addiction throughout my marriage, my wife found out and demanded that we either divorce or separate. She says the marriage is over and that there is too much damage done and she can't trust me. I didn't realise how bad it had become and how I could loose my family over this. I have arranged for counselling and treatment through my doctor. I have stopped viewing porn. I am going to see my priest for help and my wife can see that I am remorsful and am actively seeking help. My wife though, is very angry and hurt by what I have done and how it affected our lives for so long. Her reaction has been to try and buy me out of my share of the mortgage or sell up. She thinks of nothing else but to detach herself financially from me and wants me to leave whuch I have not done as its only been 2 weeks since all this happened. We have 2 young children who don't understand why daddy is sleeping in the spare room. I am trying to do what I can to show her that I am committed to changing for good but her guard is up refuses to try couples therapy or reason with me. I just don't know what to do.
I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?
