It sounds good..you sound empowered --you are taking care of yourself and yes your W will have to figure this out
I agree D is a business deal…I would definitely get your fair share and the girls
W has no one to support except herself..you have all the responsibly
My XH practically got nothing ..it was his choice..his addictions.. his affair
I at first wanted to split some things like our business but when he proved to run it into the ground, come to work high, or not shoe at all- and spend constantly,,he lost that too
I have no regret about anything I did.. I was as patient as possible-
I am grateful I was able to save our finances for me and my kids I think when it comes to the financial end and where we have full custody thats needs to be fully taken in consideration
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow