Like right now, I'd be waiting for his Monday morning check in call and then we'd go through our Monday "convo" I'd be upset, H would feel things were okay...then he'd come over to see S and then he'd be back and, see there was routine there!!! Now it's day to day, getting used to each other again.
You're right it does become a routine! Having them home is a minute by minute "let's see what works" exercise. Establishing new routines and trying to db at the same time.
You will make it!
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
Now it's day to day, getting used to each other again.